People are not neatly divided into the strong and the weak. More often, they are divided into those who know what they want and those who keep asking themselves.
The first lot gets on with the job. The second waits for the right mood, better weather, an auspicious date and perhaps a small miracle after lunch.
A decision is painful because it closes doors. But that is also where its strength lies. Energy stops wandering and is put to work.
Anyone determined to keep every door open usually spends life in the corridor.